I Walk Alone !!!

I Walk Alone !!!

Along the path I moved on,

Still not known where I was gone…

Don’t follow me as I am gone…

Don’t accompany me, I Walk alone !!

With loads of thoughts and plans behind,

I turned my back and got so blind….

Whom to call, where to turn,

Lost the way where I would’ve run…

Anguish, remorse, lament or screams,

Don’t want to summon up my own dreams….

Moving on and no one beside,

That’s what I had to decide…

Steadily moving towards comatose,

Have left with nothing, so what to pose…

My eyes are dry, my words unspoken,

Had never wished it that way to happen…

Avoid expectations to live happily!

The more I recall this quote, the more ambiguous statements start dwelling into my mind. So, just thought of sharing those here that might prove somewhat conclusive.

Why do we expect? Have we ever thought of the core reason of all our qualms, despairs, anguish that lead us ultimately to the state of numb and bleakness? We detest everything just because we couldn’t get something we wished for. Things didn’t move along the path we so immensely planned and almost fretfully waited for. Almost 90% of us do the same. We get totally lost with what we didn’t get that we completely forget about what we still have in our plate. .

If we couldn't reach our goals (the way we planned or dreamed of), it doesn’t mean that we were not worthy of those or that we couldn't perform well enough to attain those. It only means that there is something much more better for us that we simply overlook being in state of desolation and wretchedness.

There is nothing wrong to expect something or to struggle hard to reach out to your goals but living with this false impression that you would unquestionably get that is something that creates the real trouble. Here we go with some simple solution to these disastrous problems. I reckon, all we need to do is to curtail the level of our expectations. It might seem hard and thorny to implement but once adopted in your life, marvelous results would be seen and that would make remarkable difference to your life.

You need to be less demanding at your part.

Doing without thinking of the outcome, giving without being concerned of what might come back, developing a habit of forgetting and forgiving would definitely help you out..

The most important one "Never look forward to get from the same person or organization or a specific relationship for whom you worked /loved so hard.. You would be paid back from somebody else, from other (at times hidden) sources of nature.. "So , just keep on doing the way you always wanted to, stay determined and unwavering. Trust me, thats so true, my dear sis always tells me so and this is the real impetus for not getting weary or disparaged so easily(or so early :p )

This is way too much I guess :D Above ALL .. “Have a BIG HEART ,BE COURAGEOUS enough to live life with its afflictions as NOBODY gets a perfect life but EVERYBODY can make oneJ”.

Wrapping up with some beautiful lines that I read somewhere..

May all the changes

That we Wish to Make

Grow fruitful in this year.

And that HOPE , we can, too, create.

May any of the risks,

We'd like to Take

Help turn life anew.

And that HOPE , we can, too, create..

That’s it for now, would be back soon J

Years Ago !

Just got so many thoughts, gossips and events roaming around my mind today and one of those is so clear that it seems as if it just happened today.

Some years back when I was at college, we were planning for a welcome party for our juniors and I was taking part in almost every single activity of that event (except for the catering, of course :) ) . At that day, everything went so well and we were being appreciated by almost everybody around. Still remember the comparing part, gaming show, the skit, the excitement, enjoyment, sense of achievement, as that was all very much difficult for me and my very dear friend to proceed. There were hundreds of disparaging statements, loads of obstacles, countless negative statements for us. But we didn’t care for even a single comment and didn’t let the cloud of despair surround us.

At day end, when I came back home I was so much excited and thrilled that I couldn’t sleep at all the whole night. Kept on telling my mother the whole event gossips again and again. I was happy not for myself but for my friend. That was much difficult for her to get along the whole welcome speech as she was being on the stage for the very first time in her life. The feeling of accomplishment, triumph and satisfaction filled my heart with utmost joy and pleasure for so many days.

Today, don't know how come I am feeling the same enthusiasm, contentment and achievement. At times, seeing somebody else’s achievements makes you happy and contended more than your own :)Even though you might not be in the perfect mood or feeling a bit down some way or the other, but that sudden gust of excitement drags out all the sorrows and down feelings away from your heart and your soul gets filled up with only blooming and thriving thoughts.

Realization or Visualization

Just thought of writing so that I may not forget my blog’s link again :D
Most of the times, the root cause of our misconceptions, problems and sufferings in different spans of the life time is our inability to interpret the difference between realization and visualization. It happens when we fail to recognize the truth that lies just in front of us and try to visualize things that don’t exist. We fabricate those in our minds and shape those the way we want them to be. That’s because the real picture is not always so welcoming and favorable. It has its shortcomings, rejections, failures with it. And that are required for one’s grooming and better living as we learn much from worse experiences. If live had not been through failure, loses, deception and hatred then we would have never valued success, achievements, purity and love that much.
But we don’t want to accept that and start visualizing things and fabricate those in our minds and ultimately that fake picture leads us to the ultimate disaster, suffering and affliction. The sooner we accept the reality the better we shape our lives accordingly.

For instance, some people mean so much for us and we get hold of them without realizing that we never meant to be in their lives. We live with that misconception that they need, care and like to be with us exactly the way we do. Though, it’s been revealed many times that we don’t mean much to them and they don’t need us anymore. We get so blind that we fail to notice that they had only been courteous to us. But we just try to evade it as much as we can and keep on doing the same. That’s never been a compulsion that you get the same from them as we all have our own preferences and priorities in life and we got to give space to each other and must accept the reality as soon as it can be instead of visualizing false relationships that would only cause suffering at the end.
You must accept the truth, no matter how brutal and intolerable it seems to be. And then start living optimistically by keeping the shortcomings aside instead of starting fabricate things that never existed.
That’s your own choice; either you want to accept the reality and move on with a better life or to keep on visualizing things that never happened.

Time moves on

Life seems to be running away, and time is flying fast even before we realize it...

Do we have time to think, to control our thoughts, to look back or even to look besides us. We fail to see that who has gone away and who is standing right there for us...

At times, life gets so much occupied that we forget everything and everyone and keep on moving ahead without having glimpse of what/whom we once loved the most...

HOLD ON ! Take a break ....

You have been blessed with a wonderful life, get hold of it ,before it slips away from your hands like sand particles ... Enjoy every moment of it ....

Stay Beautiful, stay blessed :)

Forgot my Blog's link :D

Well, writing the second post after almost a month coz I totally forgot the link to my own blog :D :D :D Just searched through the history and got it back :)