Years Ago !

Just got so many thoughts, gossips and events roaming around my mind today and one of those is so clear that it seems as if it just happened today.

Some years back when I was at college, we were planning for a welcome party for our juniors and I was taking part in almost every single activity of that event (except for the catering, of course :) ) . At that day, everything went so well and we were being appreciated by almost everybody around. Still remember the comparing part, gaming show, the skit, the excitement, enjoyment, sense of achievement, as that was all very much difficult for me and my very dear friend to proceed. There were hundreds of disparaging statements, loads of obstacles, countless negative statements for us. But we didn’t care for even a single comment and didn’t let the cloud of despair surround us.

At day end, when I came back home I was so much excited and thrilled that I couldn’t sleep at all the whole night. Kept on telling my mother the whole event gossips again and again. I was happy not for myself but for my friend. That was much difficult for her to get along the whole welcome speech as she was being on the stage for the very first time in her life. The feeling of accomplishment, triumph and satisfaction filled my heart with utmost joy and pleasure for so many days.

Today, don't know how come I am feeling the same enthusiasm, contentment and achievement. At times, seeing somebody else’s achievements makes you happy and contended more than your own :)Even though you might not be in the perfect mood or feeling a bit down some way or the other, but that sudden gust of excitement drags out all the sorrows and down feelings away from your heart and your soul gets filled up with only blooming and thriving thoughts.

Realization or Visualization

Just thought of writing so that I may not forget my blog’s link again :D
Most of the times, the root cause of our misconceptions, problems and sufferings in different spans of the life time is our inability to interpret the difference between realization and visualization. It happens when we fail to recognize the truth that lies just in front of us and try to visualize things that don’t exist. We fabricate those in our minds and shape those the way we want them to be. That’s because the real picture is not always so welcoming and favorable. It has its shortcomings, rejections, failures with it. And that are required for one’s grooming and better living as we learn much from worse experiences. If live had not been through failure, loses, deception and hatred then we would have never valued success, achievements, purity and love that much.
But we don’t want to accept that and start visualizing things and fabricate those in our minds and ultimately that fake picture leads us to the ultimate disaster, suffering and affliction. The sooner we accept the reality the better we shape our lives accordingly.

For instance, some people mean so much for us and we get hold of them without realizing that we never meant to be in their lives. We live with that misconception that they need, care and like to be with us exactly the way we do. Though, it’s been revealed many times that we don’t mean much to them and they don’t need us anymore. We get so blind that we fail to notice that they had only been courteous to us. But we just try to evade it as much as we can and keep on doing the same. That’s never been a compulsion that you get the same from them as we all have our own preferences and priorities in life and we got to give space to each other and must accept the reality as soon as it can be instead of visualizing false relationships that would only cause suffering at the end.
You must accept the truth, no matter how brutal and intolerable it seems to be. And then start living optimistically by keeping the shortcomings aside instead of starting fabricate things that never existed.
That’s your own choice; either you want to accept the reality and move on with a better life or to keep on visualizing things that never happened.

Time moves on

Life seems to be running away, and time is flying fast even before we realize it...

Do we have time to think, to control our thoughts, to look back or even to look besides us. We fail to see that who has gone away and who is standing right there for us...

At times, life gets so much occupied that we forget everything and everyone and keep on moving ahead without having glimpse of what/whom we once loved the most...

HOLD ON ! Take a break ....

You have been blessed with a wonderful life, get hold of it ,before it slips away from your hands like sand particles ... Enjoy every moment of it ....

Stay Beautiful, stay blessed :)

Forgot my Blog's link :D

Well, writing the second post after almost a month coz I totally forgot the link to my own blog :D :D :D Just searched through the history and got it back :)

My Very First Post at Very First Blog

I am really excited writing my blog, so leaving only one line for the first post...

" Only those succeed who dare to dream "

:)