Realization or Visualization

Just thought of writing so that I may not forget my blog’s link again :D
Most of the times, the root cause of our misconceptions, problems and sufferings in different spans of the life time is our inability to interpret the difference between realization and visualization. It happens when we fail to recognize the truth that lies just in front of us and try to visualize things that don’t exist. We fabricate those in our minds and shape those the way we want them to be. That’s because the real picture is not always so welcoming and favorable. It has its shortcomings, rejections, failures with it. And that are required for one’s grooming and better living as we learn much from worse experiences. If live had not been through failure, loses, deception and hatred then we would have never valued success, achievements, purity and love that much.
But we don’t want to accept that and start visualizing things and fabricate those in our minds and ultimately that fake picture leads us to the ultimate disaster, suffering and affliction. The sooner we accept the reality the better we shape our lives accordingly.

For instance, some people mean so much for us and we get hold of them without realizing that we never meant to be in their lives. We live with that misconception that they need, care and like to be with us exactly the way we do. Though, it’s been revealed many times that we don’t mean much to them and they don’t need us anymore. We get so blind that we fail to notice that they had only been courteous to us. But we just try to evade it as much as we can and keep on doing the same. That’s never been a compulsion that you get the same from them as we all have our own preferences and priorities in life and we got to give space to each other and must accept the reality as soon as it can be instead of visualizing false relationships that would only cause suffering at the end.
You must accept the truth, no matter how brutal and intolerable it seems to be. And then start living optimistically by keeping the shortcomings aside instead of starting fabricate things that never existed.
That’s your own choice; either you want to accept the reality and move on with a better life or to keep on visualizing things that never happened.